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Elise Boratenski's avatar

This is great. Every time I read Martin’s commentary on LOTR I just feel like he’s missing the point entirely.

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Zoë Tavares Bennett's avatar

Thank you for sharing this, I know it must've been really difficult to write about such a painful loss. This essay was especially meaningful to me since I recently watched my father grieve for his twin brother during Easter (as you know), which happened to be my uncle's favorite time of year precisely because of the message of hope and resurrection that it brings. Although we tried to feel that sense of renewal and hope to help us grieve and to remember him, we too found ourselves overwhelmed by the grief instead and it was a struggle to embrace that spring feeling of hope. But as Tolkien believes, I also believe that we will be reunited with our loved ones in the end--or as Tolkien would put it--the start of our journeys.

While I love his On Fairy Stories essay, especially his belief in happy endings and fantasy as a reflection of Truth, in reading your reflections I was reminded of his short story "Leaf by Niggle" which always moves me nearly to tears. At one point Niggle enters his "afterlife" and he realizes it is the painting he had worked on his whole life but now it was "real" and even the things he had only imagined were come to light. He notices that "the Tree, his Tree, [is] finished" and immediately proclaims it a "gift," a word he uses "referring to his art, and also to the result; but--he was using the word quite literally."

I love this line because it subtly refers to the idea in Middle-earth that the "death" reserved for mortal Men is different than that for the Elves, that it is actually a gift. The Elves are the only ones allowed back in the West in Valinor or the Blessed Realm (save a few exceptions) while Ilúvatar had a different fate for Men that not even the Elves understood fully. But while Men called Death a tragedy in their ignorance and fear, in the mythology preserved by the Elves it was considered The Gift of Ilúvatar, which allows them to go beyond the confines of Arda. This gift in the Silmarillion is described like this: "Death is their fate, the gift of Iluvatar, which as Time wears even the Powers shall envy." Tolkien always has a way with words, but something about this rings with a Truth that I hold onto in hard times like these.

I pray for you and your family as I do for mine, that each Easter brings us closer to truly appreciating this gift, even if it is still a mystery to us now, and that we trust in the hope that our loved ones are waiting for us to start our longer journey, just like Parish waits for his wife in Niggle's painting-come-to-life, and that in time all of us will ultimately be united in a higher peace and love.

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